Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Why You Should Not Masturbate



Why is masturbation spreading so fast in the world today?

Masturbation or self-pleasuring has become a socially accepted practice by both female and male genders throughout the world today, more than in the past. This may be as a result of the increasing rise in sexually transmitted diseases otherwise known as STDs or due to the difficulty encountered by both genders in finding a trusted romance partner. But is this supposed to be the normal way of life? If not, what are the dangers associated with female or male masturbation?


The issue of people touching themselves or pleasuring their bodies to obtain either emotional or physical satisfaction, has been a widespread disease in the world today, especially amongst the young people of age; 14 to 30, maybe as a result of sex appeal marketing going on in every sector of today's world, or due to peer pressure and youthful exuberance.

Historical indices showed that between the periods of 1920s to late 30s, fewer numbers of females indulged in self-pleasuring, while from late 1930s to late70s, the figure increased by some percentage. My own years of personal research showed that this was as a result of so many wars that took place in these periods of 1930s to 70s, leading to the death of more number of male adults. And within the periods of early 1980s to mid 90s, lesser number of females practiced this. And finally, the current index showed that this number has quadrupled from that period till date, what should be the problem?


Why do females masturbate?


Again, my personal research showed that more and more females are beginning to indulge in this act for the following reasons:

1. The new female craze to experience orgasm

2. Fear of heartbreak, so many prefer to live single

3. Global quest to empower women, causing more women to desire spinster life

4. Fear of contacting STDs

5. Media hype

6. Sex marketing going on in all media forms- home videos, musical videos and social network sites

7. Fear of unwanted pregnancy (most common amongst female students)

8. Desire to be seen as a religiously upright person (some females prefer to get personal emotional relief via masturbating secretly in their rooms than to be seen as a lady that sleeps with men)

9. Desire to remain a technical virgin

10. Parental restriction or lack of freedom (mostly applicable to teenage girls)

11. Pornography viewing

These are the major reasons why majority of females are beginning to indulge in self-pleasuring than in the past. And for their male counterpart, below are some of the major reasons:



Why do guys masturbate?



1. Inability to find a romantic partner or lover, which may be attributed to so many factors like- lack of finance due to unemployment or joblessness, age, parental restrictions, inferiority complex, lack of boldness, religious reasons, etc

2. Sexual extremism/perversion or high sex drive/orgy

3. Abnormal imaginations

4. Idleness and loneliness

5. Parental restrictions (applicable to teenage boys alone)

6. Fear of contacting STDs

7. Abnormal desire to be appear religiously clean or upright

8. Bad company or friends

9. Addiction to pornography

10. Fear of being a father


IS IT HEALTHY TO INDULGE IN SELF-PLEASURING?

Some medical experts would tell you that it is safe to practice self-pleasuring, but I am here to prove them wrong, medically, psychologically, physically and spiritually. There are lots of health risks associated with self-pleasuring, don’t practice it!

Medically: there is something called ‘normal flora’ in medical terminology. This means the proper location or habitation of something or you can call it healthy environment for a particular organism, substance, virus, bacteria, etc. Now, an improper placement of a particular body substance(s), useful bacteria or secretions, into an unusual flora, may lead to an infection or malfunctioning in the body system.

In most cases where people masturbate (especially the male), they usually employ a lubricant (majority make use of the saliva) to lubricate their male organ so as to allow him to mimic the movement of his organ during normal encounter with a female, by so doing, he pleasures himself to a minute satisfaction or so. Applying the saliva on his organ has disobeyed the law of ‘normal flora’, which may and usually results to an infection in the organ, and neither is it advisable to use jellies cos same applies. I am not here to explain all those medical implications…If you doubt this, carry out this simple test to confirm.

Confirmation test- for continuously 7 days, keep using your saliva to rub on a particular portion on your skin (e.g. your hand or any other), during this period, ensure that portion of your skin is always covered, and do not apply any cream or soap on it. After the period of 7 days, examine that skin, you would notice some skin coloration or infection, your test is complete. Thank you.

Another medical or hygienic danger is the possibility of dirt or germs penetrating into your organ through the skin pores that usually opens during this act. And 60% of people that practice this, do it without washing their hands thoroughly with clean germ-free water. Beware!

There are more medical risks of practicing masturbation, which I shall soon publish in a more comprehensive hub for you to read and be aware.

Psychologically: my personal research and honest interviews with youths who admitted they had indulged in masturbation, revealed that during self-pleasuring, the person involved imagines a lot of things (indecent images and scenes), some may go as wild as imagining themselves involving in a similar encounter with probably an attractive opposite sex (may be a star, celebrity, neighbor, coworker, etc), some may even imagine themselves in an extra-ordinary situations that may and usually come reflecting in their memories even after the act. This has led some to crime such as: female molestation, stalking or kidnapping, etc.

Many who have indulged in this act, have confirmed that they usually feel empty, angry, rejected and unacceptable the moment they are done with it.

Continuous involvement in masturbation have also been proved by sexual experts to lead to sexual dissatisfaction with a partner in later life. It is also reported that 3 in every 5 ladies that masturbate frequently, do find it difficult to obtain complete satisfaction with their boyfriend or husband, some may never reach the crest of lovemaking in their whole life. And it has also been proven that they often piss their male partners off with so many unusual demands during normal lovemaking. This is also applicable to men.

Physically: masturbation does often result to injury of the outer sex organ in both male and female. Some people who indulge in this do often lose concentration and injure their body, which may often times give room for skin infections. And continuous rubbing of the organ strains the: skin, the veins, arteries, muscles and glands around that region, which may result to abnormal displacement, deformation or malfunction.

Spiritually: if you are a Christian, I don’t need to start quoting the Bible for you here, but I am very sure you know that masturbation is an unclean practice in Christian life, which is called, sin. Conversely, some hypocrites misinterpret this as not being a sin. This is just the same as girls or ladies who engage in oral sex and masturbation and still claim to be virgins. Let me clear you with that misinterpretation, so long as you have had any form of encounter that arouse your feelings sexually either by self-pleasuring or oral s*x, you are no longer a virgin, you are just a technical virgin. Thank you guys, see you in the part two or you can catch me at this place: why do men cheat in a relationship or marriage?

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  5. While some devote Christians frown upon masturbation, it's something everyone does or has done in their lifetime. Especially adolescent teens who discover the physical pleasures of their own bodies. Some young girls don't realize until their first period that they even have a vagina as it's just their "pee" area. Boys have several erections in their sleep and usually wake with one or have "wet dreams" causing some to ejaculate in their sleep. Boys notice and like visions of the opposite sex during a girl's development, like bosoms and brassieres or swimsuits or even a low cut blouse all fuel a young males's desire for masturbating. Many young male teens often are turned on by simple lingerie pictures in catalogs. Both sexes discover the excitement of just being nude, even without visioning a particular sex act. I've woken bottomless, not recalling how I undressed myself in my sleep, females will admit to that as well. Right or wrong, at a young age our hormones are raging like a forest fire and those sudden urges are hard to control. Being told it's wrong only fuels the fire even more to try it as a form of rebellion. As we grow older our drive diminishes but is still there, it has to be there as later as we marry those urges continue and becomes part of our married life. Personally I think youth develope too soon as adolescence and puberty kicks in long before the child becomes an adult.

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