Tuesday, June 11, 2013

A Woman's Online Boyfriend Turns Out To Be Her Ex-husband!

It’s like the piƱa colada song but with a really creepy ending.

Don’t you hate it when you meet the man of your dreams, only to realize he’s your crazy, stalker ex-husband?

An unidentified Minnesota woman met a nice man through an online dating site, and the two eventually established a relationship. The couple began communicating extensively, and she felt comfortable sharing intimate details about her personal life.

Read the complete story after the page cut...



His name was Aaron Carpenter, and the woman opened up to him about her issues with her ex-husband. She and her ex had an ugly split in 2011 and were involved in an ongoing custody battle, she confided to Carpenter. 

Turns out, Aaron Carpenter was really Brian Matthew Cornelius, the woman’s ex. Yep, Cornelius catfished his ex-wife, creating a false online identity. He now faces stalking charges and is set to appear in court next month.


Original Story Below:

For nearly a year after her divorce, a West St. Paul woman opened up to a man she dated online, sharing intimate details of her personal life and struggles with her ex-husband.
Then, prosecutors say, she got a surprise. The man on the other end of the computer was her ex-husband. 

Brian Matthew Cornelius, a 36-year-old Sturgeon Lake, Minn., man, created an elaborate online persona under an assumed name and with borrowed photographs to strike up a digital relationship with his former wife, according to charges filed Tuesday in Dakota County District Court.
Prosecutors say Cornelius went so far as to arrange to watch the woman through a webcam, and he persuaded her to skip a court appearance in which she was seeking an order for protection against him. 

Phone calls to Cornelius and his most recent attorney of record were not returned Thursday.
Cornelius and the woman were married in 2000 and divorced in 2011, according to court records. They have two young children together and have sparred in court over custody issues.
He faces two counts of gross misdemeanor stalking.

According to the charges:
About three months after her divorce, the woman met someone through a dating website who went by the name "Aaron Carpenter." The two struck up an "extensive" online relationship, exchanging emails, text messages and other electronic communications. 

The woman "confided intimate details of her life and daily activities" with Carpenter, including her
difficulties with Cornelius. She also let him see her in her home via a webcam, the complaint said. In March 2012, after an alleged physical assault by Cornelius, the woman told Carpenter about her plans to get an order for protection against her ex-husband. 

Carpenter persuaded her to skip the court date, and the request for an order subsequently was dismissed. 

In August 2012, the woman discovered Cornelius was masquerading as the man online, the complaint said. An order for protection was granted later that month and is still active. 

West St. Paul police Investigator Shawna Curtis said the woman pieced the situation together after Cornelius started showing up in places she told Carpenter she would be. 

Carpenter also started saying things only Cornelius would know, Curtis said. 

It's not uncommon for men who are estranged to keep tabs on their former partners or try to make illicit contact online, she said. 

"Sometimes if they're that obsessive, that's how they're getting around to harassing or stalking or monitoring," Curtis said. 

Cornelius's ex-wife confronted him with her suspicions, and he admitted to using images from Google and Facebook to create the online persona of Carpenter, according to the complaint.
The woman told police she felt "terrorized by Cornelius," is "constantly fearful that he is watching her" and doesn't feel safe in her own home. 

David Kendall, assistant West St. Paul city attorney, said the legal basis for the stalking charges "is basically the fact that he created a persona on the Internet to keep tabs on her and kind of induce her into revealing her day-to-day activities." 

In a court document filed in November in St. Louis County Court over custody issues, Cornelius made reference to a protection order "based on allegations that I set up fake online personalities in an attempt to stalk her," but does not elaborate. 

Under the terms of that order, which is active until August 2013, Cornelius is not to have contact with his ex-wife except to facilitate phone calls with their children. 

He has no criminal history in Minnesota outside of a few traffic violations.
His first court date on the stalking charges is set for July 1. 

Courtesy of: twincities


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