I just stumbled upon this write-up, and it made a lot of sense, such that I couldn't stop myself from publishing, at least one or two people can learn something from it, and to also encourage the virgin girls out there to hang on, and to discourage immorality and waywardness amongst young girls of today....
Please make sure you read the entire article, its really inspiring and an eye-opener....see it after the page cut...
Please make sure you read the entire article, its really inspiring and an eye-opener....see it after the page cut...
I have been thinking and asking of late, Is it ever possible
to meet a woman as a virgin before the oath of the alter? Our society is
degenerating fast, the rate at which lustful desire has weaken the credibility
of what most people call marriages is so alarming.
Growing up, some of
the stories that caught my interest were one told of a woman who married as a
Virgin, I was so fascinated that I admired the woman and her decision to remain
chaste before her wedding. Such women are treated with so much respect by the
husband that eventually married her.
She can raise her
head and even boast before her husband and tell younger people to follow her
footsteps, only a foolish man dares to disrespect such women; that for me is
the greatest honor a woman can have in marriage apart from knowing also how to
take charge of her marriage and make it work with wisdom.
For a woman to be
married as a virgin is better than buying a new car, never driven, with any
faults.
Those days, men seat
with friends to discuss their wives and their chastity and boast of seeing the
first blood of the marriage, I even heard that there is cultures in the (then)
Nigeria where the families of the woman will spread a white clothe to confirm
their daughter’s virginity and wait with trepidation to hear good news from the
man after the first sex.
Unfortunately those
are over, Let me blame (us) the men first for our uncontrollable lust,
foolishness has become so rampant in our society, some of us cannot take away
our eyes from the backside of a woman where they discharge number two, we look
at the bosom, we look at the hips and sometimes driving we forget that the
traffic light has turned green and we keep looking. There are even men who
though married will still hunt for young girls who are young enough to be their
daughters and will go into unprintable foolishness because the control of such
men is in their zip and not on their brains.
There are fathers who
would kill a young man for visiting his daughter, yet he will go to places
where his kids will not see him to mess up with ladies as young as his own
daughter.
I have been too
worried for ladies who after messing up their youthful age will become
desperate to marry at 30 and also, concerned for innocent men who end up in the
hands of professional prostitutes who just changed their address, so many have
damaged their wombs with several abortions, some have lived so carelessly in
the Universities or even out there and they are now willing to settle in the
arms of a ready to marry careless man.
This is however, not
to say that some ladies are not married (Not Because) they messed up but
because they are not at the right Location to meet their spouse, I imagine a
woman who is supposed to be in Nigeria to met her husband, sitting in UK or the
one who is meant to be in Asaba, to meet the right man and she is in Abuja
waiting to hook up a senator until her time is past marriage.
Now for women, ahhh!
how cheap they have suddenly become that you can have two girls for five naira.
(two for five naira) imagine the drive in women these days is no longer about
reputation, it is Food, Money and Sex, I have never found a woman who is
discipline with food, they eat like chickens and are ready for any other thing
you throw at them after the food.
The Mr. Biggs of this
world, the Tantalizers of these worlds, the Chicken republic of this world and
all such names are business set as answer to tickle a woman into immoral
“yesmanship” the moment you satisfy her by flaunting some vanities, she is
willing to go all the way. They are easily lured with all these even if you
rented a car for this exercise,
When a woman ask what
do you do for a living, she is only trying to find out psychologically if she
will be secured, and that is after you have flaunted the pomp and pageantry of
papal Rome in the name of avarice, she does not care what happens after the
marriage, she is too eager to get in for the excitement of temporal gain. That
is why so many are in deep poo after wedding
So we have “Meat Pie
girls, Suya girls, Chicken and Chips girls name it, they fall for anything in
the name of temporal comfort,
A friend once told me
that this fear of getting a wrong girl made him to pretend to be poor although
he worked as a boss in a Telecoms company and is comfortable, he rented an
apartment in a project and search for a wife until he luckily met a True
Christian, he did not take her to be one, so they continued for years in the
project, my friend had completed his house and finished it but he kept that
away from the woman, after the marriage, the lady hoping to go to his house in
the project, they just drove straight in a ready car, thought to be borrowed
into his new apartment, the Lady was shocked that she wept like a baby on
discovering the wealth kept away from her. That is a classic example but it
does not happen anymore.
Women have made
themselves so cheap that you can see it in what they wear; they thought
unclothedness is impressive, only foolish men will admire your bosom in public,
I am not against being Trendy and modern but this modern Unclothedness that
expose the bosom of a woman and her pants from the backside is disgusting, the
annoying thing is the fact that this desperation is a foolish way of catching a
man
Truth is only foolish
men are caught by your Unclothedness; Ladies do not know that, they cannot
marry a real man by flaunting their Unclad parts to impress him.
Sometimes, I ask if
ladies who visit club houses and red light districts wants to marry too. It is
a great wickedness to mess up oneself with men who are not willing to marry you
and afterwards deceiving a man who do not know you wired lifestyle.
Some barrenness are
caused by this wickedness’
It is so shocking
that even Married women expose their unclothedness, some wear skirts that is
afraid of touching their knees, they pass it on to their children and now the
generation of children has learned it the wrong way and they have gone the
extra mile, You cannot walk freely on Yaba or Oshodi or Ojota and not see
disgusting pictures of Unclothedness. Some these ladies have been dis-flowered
many times that you do not need to worry about seeing any blood when you marry
them, some will even lie, that they lost their virginity when they played
football with some guys, they say things like “I just saw that I was dripping
blood and I had to leave the playing ground”
Today, it was funny
when I heard how ladies can pretend to be tight by using “alum” solution to
clean their private body to deceive undiscerning men
I pity the men who
never met their wives as a virgin, The thing she did before you met her, she
can do it again, and for men who are beating their chest that they met their
wives as virgin, your case is worse if you do not satisfy her sexually, she
will seek solution outside your home.
Have you heard of sex
in the office?
Have you heard of sex
before job?
You must have heard
of several infidelity, the news are many, how do you feel if you marry a woman
who was promiscuous before you met her, and after marriage her rudeness is
suggestive of her insatiable appetite
What about the woman
who has learned to be Unclad, showing all part of her private bodies and yet
she is not married? How do you expect to tame her when you eventually marry
her?
Please tell me, if
the guys who dis-flowered your wife were present on the day of your marriage
and they are laughing you to scorn for not knowing how bad your wife has lived?
How will you feel, if
she still keeps contacts with them? Don’t forget, you did not meet her a
Virgin.
Does it concern a
woman that she married after she has been dis-flowered by another man, I am not
talking about a molestation case that one is an exception, because it was a
force by a fool
I hear some ladies
say, , “ I am a Virgin” Let me tell you who is not a virgin ,If a man has
fumbled with your bosom at any time, you are not a virgin, If a man has
caressed you to the point of discharge (you know what I meant) it is even
better if you go all the way, the far you have gone has dis-virgin you, and let
me say that is my own definition,
Some ladies say I
don’t want to lose my virginity; I did not go all the way, the Far you went,
has turned you into a sex cannibal,
Are there virgin who
are still proud about their virginity?
Are there decent
ladies who are not given to the foolish trend of Unclothedness?
Are there men who
still desire to meet a descent girl who is not greedy, avaricious and vain as
we see all around?
Just before you go,
don’t be offended at ever thing I said, I am just expressing the Lamentation of
some men who are unwilling to marry because of the cheap worth of women these
days, their greed, the promiscuity, their plastic lifestyle, their insatiable
appetite, the unreal lifestyle, the Unclothedness called fashion, the pretense
and all that you know.
Don’t think I am
better to say some of these things, I wish I were not messed up in my own way
too, sometime, it is best to say we are in it together.
What is your take?
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