Why Most Girls Don’t Find True Love

To some people, love is a fallacy, whereas to others, it exist, just that its hard and rare to find nowadays, don’t give up.

I am not going to go into long sermon today, so let’s hit the nail on the head and get things going as fast as we can.

Why are so many single ladies unable to find love?

Find the answers after the page cut...

1.       You don’t take care of yourself- your looks, your diet, your dressing, you appearance, your manner, etc.

2.       You have set a high standard that is impossible for most guys to scale through- you want a man working in a blue chip company, who owns a cute car and an expensive apartment, and you also want him to be very handsome like Tom Cruise, hot like David Beckham, cool like Lionel Messi, Godly like Pope Benedict, popular like Obama and adventurous like Walkerman, you definitely need to wake up before it is too late.

3.       Your life is a mirror of the entertainment industry ladies- you keep emulating the lifestyles of singers, actresses, etc, hoping to attract very rich and hot guys, gurl you are mistaken, take a u-turn now!

4.       You believe in sex- you believe that because you are sexy and beautiful, you can get any man of your choice, but that’s the greatest mistake you have made because men will only come to you for fun and go back to their real girl after the fun, be wise and zip up!

5.       You expect too much from men- stop planning your life around men, start living your own independent life; get a career, business or  a job and start making your own money

6.       You are arrogant to men- you are searching for a man to love you genuinely, but you keep snubbing, abusing and looking down on all men that come your way, just because they aren’t the class or caliber of men you want to connect with. Now listen up gurl, men sense arrogance in you even if you don’t showcase it towards them but only to others, so beware!

7.       You love money- yes, you love money more than friendship, and in an effort to acquire money, you have thrown away good moral conduct. Once you meet a man today, the next thing that comes to your mind is how do I get money from him? Hey gurl, men have wisen up, they will give and shower you with money, but behind you, you are nothing but a slot, so?

8.       You are too materialistic- I don’t need to stress much on this, you know what I mean by being materialistic, so try and be conservative, real men love conservative and reserved ladies, take it or leave it.

9.       You keep bad companies- your friends are bad girls. Guys judge you even without your knowledge, by the type of friends you keep. They will definitely cheer you, call you hot, sexy, trendy, etc, but in their hearts, you are nothing but the rampant whores he meets and rolls with all year, so separate yourself from the crowd.

10.   You live by the past- I have said this countless times, and of course I know that it is not easy to let go, but then, you have to let that bad experience with your ex go in order to connect happily with great guys out there.

11.   You lack respect and humility- this is common amongst the working class ladies. Just because you are earning money doesn’t mean you should disrespect and look down on men. If you look around, you will discover that most working class ladies- pretty and gorgeous, including the rich ones, are single, lonely and claiming not to be interested in dating, says who? They want to date, but their lack of respect and humility can’t let them stay in a happy relationship for long, reason why most can’t humble themselves to date a decent guy, instead they prefer sleeping around with married and unmarried rich men to their own detriment.

12.   You are a talkative- most men hate women talkative, so minimize the way you talk.

13.   You dress like a whore- remember that you are addressed the way you dress. Dress responsibly, and responsible men will come your way, dress otherwise, and same would happen. Stop wearing excess makeup that makes you look like an Egyptian murmur, and stop wearing those heavy human hair attachment that make you look like a maimed. They scare real men away.

14.   You live exorbitant and extravagant lifestyle- you own the latest i-phone, i-pad, Blackberry, HTC, Samsung galaxy, etc, and you wear the costliest jewelry, carry the costliest handbag and put on the costliest dress and you are expecting to find true love? And you are expecting to see real men who are out for good to come asking you to be their wife, how? You really need to understand how men reason to be able to understand what I am trying to say here…anyway, use your sense.

We will continue on the next edition….wishing you a happy love life.