Where To Find Good Girls

Good girls are no longer easy to come by. Remember, what I mean by good girls is not just pretty girls with good shape and physique, but those with good physique, manner and character that will make a wonderful home.

I am aware that a lot of guys are seriously searching for good girls to settle down with, but it seems the society and today media have jointly destroyed the character and good upbringing of most young ladies of our generation, and we cannot blame the men for desiring to marry a good girl because there is nothing like having a virtuous woman by your side forever.

I know what comes to most peoples’ mind when they hear stories like this- are the men better themselves? But wait before you go on saying that, this present world, especially the African world, Nigerian world to say, belongs to the men- they decide who to marry, when to marry, and how to marry irrespective of their financial and social status.  What am I trying to say? A man no matter his financial status decides when he wants to marry, and the very day he makes this decision, he is obviously going to find a wife- whether good or bad, but contrary to that, if a lady decides to marry now, she must wait till she finds a man that sees her worthy to be his wife; no matter how rich she may be, and if she tries to use her money and fame to get married, she is likely going to end up scammed and dumped by gigolos…so that’s why in Nigeria, the world belongs to the men.

In order words, as a girl, there is no need for you to rock shoulders with men as to who would regret living a wayward life or not because whether a man had been living a playboy life or not, the very day he decides to get married, he will surely find a mate, but that is different for a lady, and that is why you need to live a good life as a lady, don’t follow the men to live waywardly in an attempt to rock ego, or gender equality or being a feminist or whatsoever you may call it, just be good and live a modest life and you will never regret, no matter the situation.

Now, lets face the topic of today- where to find good girls?

Ignorantly, most guys believe that good girls are everywhere- yes, but not nowadays. Good girls cluster- they are no longer found everywhere, and that may be the reason why you haven’t found the right girl. This very article will open your eyes on where to go fishing for the good girls, if truly you want a good girl to settle down with. Here we go…

In Public Mass transport systems- good girls don’t care about class, they just do their thing. The bad girls have infiltrated most high places in their quest to hookup with rich guys. In their attempt to appear rich and classy, they avoid using public transport systems, they take cabs, hire costly taxis just to hype their personality to attract ignorant rich guys towards admiring them and thinking that they are their class. So humble yourself as a man and start looking towards this location.

Church midweek activities: bad girls got to discover at a point that men were beginning to search for wife in churches, they began to package themselves to appear Godly on Sunday church services. They wear best dresses, dress decently like nuns just to lure good men into their dubious nets. And many succeeded, but in the long run, men discovered their secret and started showing negative interest in ladies at church. But let me now tell you the obvious truth- good girls aren’t found on just Church Sunday services, they are found during Church midweek services mostly- they engage in Church activities beyond Sunday services- they are engrossed with Godly works, so they go beyond Sunday services. So if you want to find a good girl for good relationship that will lead to marriage, then go beyond attending Sunday church services.

Public Libraries: good girls are always engaged positively in their- career, studies, etc, so try looking in this direction

Wedding ceremonies: not all wedding ceremonies, but decent couple wedding ceremonies.

Seminars and workshops: bad girls hardly have time to attend interactive and educating seminars, so these places are mostly left for the good girls, look around here

The list will continue in the next edition coming very soon...so keep in touch.

Note:

Good girls don’t plan to meet a certain man or group of men- they are always engaged with their life goals, career and academics, you only come across them by chance, and as such, they hardly or don’t dress to kill- they dress to look adorable to themselves and to appear responsible and decent to people, but the bad girls dress to kill, to entice, to arouse, to provoke and lure men into their nets, so they wear fake weaves and human hair attachments, heavy makeups, designer perfumes, and even exorbitant clothes just to get noticed by rich guys who want to date high class ladies.

Don’t expect to find a good girl at clubs, eateries, brothels, hotels, balls, casinos, Sunday Church services, and in most other places. Have it in mind that any girl that has the gut to be at a night club, can go home with any man that impresses her that night, and she came for a purpose- monetary, emotional, business or dubious, be watchful of her.

Don’t expect to find a good girl on internet dating site (2go, 3go, eskimi, badoo, hookup, etc)- yes, hardly can you find one there because good girls hardly plan to meet a certain man or group of men. She is reserved and always minding herself.

You may be fortunate enough to meet the few good girls on internet dating sites, but they are very few and rare. And most times, they may not be that physically attractive as you maybe dreaming, which may be their reason for resorting to online dating anyway.

If you want to find a good girl online, it mustn’t be on a dating site or an internet meetup platform. You are most like to find a good girl online by chance- maybe on career websites, forums that isn’t about romance or dating, article sharing sites, etc, but hardly can you find good girls online.

The girls you see online daily have mission just like you do. Most came online with the perception of meeting up with rich guys that they are unable to meet due to their location, appearance, etc. so if you want to flirt online and have greater chances of hooking up with attractive females with hidden missions, then build yourself financially, else, they will be disappointed when they get to meet you in person, because most are online for a mission. A word is enough for the wise.

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