Rules To Follow In Order to Find True Love Online

For some time now, I had been warning people against online dating and relationship, but it just seemed that the more I preach against it, the more people venture into it, so I decided to go into a deep research to unfound certain rules that people can apply in order to make online dating and relationship work for them, so adjust your reading glasses well, get a glass of chilled water and read on…

The world is gradually going online; that means more and more people in the world today are joining the internet world, especially the youths, hence, a good number of youths from around the world now live 60 to 70% of their lives online. What do I mean by this?

More and more youths of today are signing up with social networking websites, forums, etc, and are now spending more of their daily time schedule online surfing the web for academic info, romance hookup, and sometimes to just while away idle times. Now, for someone who spends majority of his or her time on the internet, definitely the person must attempt to find love on the internet, someday, somehow, and that is why I decided to find a way to assist people searching for love or true friendship on the internet via this short write-up.

To cut the long story short, below are the rules, read and re-read them, make them part of you and I assure you that you will find love online.

Note: if you are very sure that you truly want to find true love on the internet, then follow this rule

1.       Know yourself: you need to be very sure that you yourself is okay as in- you are physically attractive to a good level, not idle, and don’t have a shabby character and manner. This very rule is most applicable to the females searching for love online. And if you are a guy, you need to be sure that you are good looking, not idle, not poor, and at least above average level as regards to financial status.

Do you know why the above rule remains vital? Now hear this- when a guy decides to search for love on the internet, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he is not seeing girls in real life, or that he is blind, nope, he’s obviously having some great expectations that he couldn’t find in real life, which he thinks he can find online. And what are those great expectations? Most guys searching for love online want to meet a very beautiful girl above average looking because they believe in their shrewd mind that most girls using internet often are tech-savvy and should be classy and beautiful. And they also believe that they are from rich family background, with good education. So they get disappointed when they meet an ugly or not so pretty looking girl, who also happens to come from a not-wealthy family background, hence, they change their mindset from searching for love to wanting to sleep with the girl and run. Too bad but true.

Now, for the girls searching for love online, have it in mind that they have admirers, suitors, and in most cases are even in relationships in real life, but because they have certain fantasies about guys the find online, they now believe that internet could be the best place to find their fantasy man. In order words, they expect the guy they meet online, whom they will give their love and heart, to be handsome or at least good-looking, working and earning good income that is above average, independent and living alone in a good apartment, and they also expect him to be very caring and generous. So if you do not meet any of the above criteria as a guy, and you want to find true love online, the chances that you will succeed is very slim and minimal, so take note.

2.       Don’t be desperate about finding love online (this applies to both guys and ladies)

3.       Don’t search within internet dating websites- you may not agree, but that’s the truth, and you know why? Because most guys you will find on internet dating sites are on a deadly mission. Now, what do I mean by ‘deadly mission’?

It means they have fishy goals online. Some have tarnished their image in real life, others have developed unattractive personality in real life, so they now ran on the internet for shortcut, and to pretend to be good to get better person.

Some guys are not really searching for love on internet dating sites, they are only looking for easy, cheap preys to grace their dirty beds. Most just want to hit and run to the next available female prey online, they are not searching to fall inlove.

And don’t be carried away by the good, smooth, caring, classy personality people portray or display online, just take it easy, one step at a time, and compose yourself and your emotion.

Same way, not all females you come across on dating sites are searching for love; some are searching for sugardaddies, male preys to squander money on their heads, while some are even guys claiming to be females just to extort money from vulnerable guys online. So don’t be fast in giving gifts and sending money to a girl or guy you met online, take it easy and gradual.

4.       Don’t rush to meetup and don’t have high expectation when meeting the person for the first time: stop daydreaming that people you find online are Dangote and Adenuga sons and daughters because majority aren’t!

And to the guys, stop believing that most girls you find online are sexy, trendy and classy or will I say ajebo (meaning those from rich family background), because not only rich people now have access to the internet like in the early 90s, paupers now have access to the internet even more than the rich. So see people you meet online as the same ordinary people you see around you on the streets daily.

5.       Get their facebook address: this will enable you know their true personality by going through their friends’ lists, you ought to see at least one or two of their family members on their friends’ list to ascertain that they are of good conduct online, and you ought to make out time and browse through their facebook timeline to know the kind of discussion they partake in.

6.       Before meeting up, try chatting with them on skype video or any other video streaming medium

7.       Always tell yourself the truth: there is no perfect guy or girl on earth, every human has their individual shortcomings, so be ready to accept their shortcoming while they do same for you.

8.       Finally, when meeting up for the first time, make it an open place and possibly, go along with a friend or make sure you tell your family and close friends where you are going.

I wish you all good luck in your search for true love, I pray this year not pass you by, pray about it and then chase you dream in life, love will definitely find you if you are lovable.

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