How To Avoid Pre-Marital Sex

Intimacy before marriage is now the acceptable trend in today world- if you are a youth and you are in a relationship and you haven't made love with your partner, then you are old-fashioned, and in fact maybe termed- a novice, and what have you, but wait...is that how its supposed to be? Are we supposed to have intimate knowledge of our partner before marriage? Is test-driving before marriage acceptable to God and mankind? Please find out after the page cut, and also find out how to avoid sex before marriage in your relationship just after the page cut, don't go away....

It is so sad how moral decadence has taken over our today world, such that moral values and good sense of judgment have been thrown into the bush just within few years of modern civilization. I am aware that all these moral decay and anti-social vices, owe tribute to our today media (musical videos, films/movies, social networks, magazines, etc) that promotes immorality and sex appeal in an attempt to market their various products, and hence, destroying the moral values of our today youths. But then, we as youths must strive to run away from the negative influences of these media publications, aimed at enriching the media tycoons to the detriment of the entire young people.

I want all guys reading this to note that sleeping with a lady or having intimacy with a girl outside marriage is no achievement to brag about, but a shameful act that ought to be condemned because it can bring reproach to our later lives, please flee from all forms of intimacy outside marriage for your own good.

Now, let me bring this to your honorable notice- when you sleep with a girl or a guy, you share your God-given virtue and talent with him or her, and as you keep sleeping with different guys or girls as the case may be, your talent and virtue keep depleting like the ozone layer until it wears out completely and you are left empty and vulnerable to worldly harms, ranging from- poverty, sickness, life confusion, persistent anger, failures, hardship, hard luck, pains, emotional torment, intellectual breakdown, moral breakdown, spiritual breakdown, marital issues, family issues, and a lots of other things.

Haven’t you wondered why majority of world celebrities keep experiencing one life trauma or the other? From marital issues to sickness, premature death, emotional trauma, drug addiction, confused state of mind, etc…it mostly as a result of their wayward lifestyles, so if you are soon to be a celebrity, and you want to live a happy life, flee from sexual immoralities, drug and alcohol abuses, etc, and of course you can still be a top celebrity without living any of the aforementioned lifestyles.

To cut the story short, how do you run away from intimacy outside marriage? Read on...

Remember, you can be in friendship or will I say relationship with a member of the opposite sex and not have intimate encounter with them until you two are legally married, how? Read on…

First, you must be determined deep down your heart to stay away from sex before marriage. You must make this known to your close friends, and most importantly to that your friend.

2. Reduce the time you spend watching home movies, foreign movies and all forms of romance movies, because they inspire erotic emotions by creating recurrent pictures of the erotic scenes in your head, which sparks up the intimate drive hormones. Remember, what you don't know and haven't seen, will hardly cross your mind.

3. Do same with internet social sites, especially pornography sites, and always avoid discussions that arouse emotions either in real life or on the internet. Once it is started, get away, shun the person and be firm about your stand, don't pity the other party or parties, be strict with your no!

4. Avoid clubbing, alcohol (if you cannot hold yourself to drink just a bottle), smoking, and gathering of youths that inspire wayward life.

5. Don't keep late nights. Make it your logo- no keeping late nights, no matter the situation, whether you are driving a Range Rover sport sport SHE Discovery sport that guarantees safety, etc, don't keep late nights. Especially the ladies, don't stay over a guy's house beyond 6pm or 7pm at most. Stay within your house once its night.

6. Avoid indecent or provocative dressing. This is most applicable to females, to avoid molestation, not all guys you see walking the street or driving around are sane, so protect your body cos its your treasure and it needs to be hidden away from peoples eyes. Some men too need to dress proper, grow up and stop copying musicians, remember most of their dressing are for their stage performance to please fans and make their money, be wise!

7. When you are with your female friend as a guy, try and help her not to fall. Remember they are created to be vulnerable to words and emotional plays, pls help her to stand. As a lady, if truly you don't want to be intimate before marriage, don't sleep over at a guy's house, and if you must, let it be his family house and sleep with his sister, mom, or female cousin.

8. Reduce the way you ask him for money, cos guys of today believe if they are spending on you monetary wise, you ought to pay them back by kind, so sometimes hold your appetite for money, I know its hard when you don't have and you need to get somethings done, God will help you out.

10. Avoid meeting in close doors alone.

11. Make sure before you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend, make sure you have enough topics and things to discuss to keep you guys busy. Maybe career talk, business, current affairs, sports, fashion, or just anything interesting so you guys don't run out of topic. And once your topics are used up, get up and leave before quietness ushers in bad emotional feelings.

12. Try and spend more time together on casual dates- visiting zoo, parks, memorable places, prison, rehab centers, hospitals, etc, so you two can develop a unique and common passion to tie your emotions aside sex.

13. Make sure you have something to offer to your partner aside sex whenever you guys are to meet. It is most times when there is nothing else to do that couples end up indulging in sex just to make up their silent and lonely times together.

Remember, sex leaves you empty once done, and it diminishes love between two partners especially the guy's love. Do not pity the guy, do not listen to him, once he notices that you are firm with your NO, he will come to accept and cherish you, and even boast about you in the presence of his good reasonable friends.

Please zip up for your goods. I know no one holy pass, but let's try our best and pray for God's grace to stand.