Friday, January 25, 2013

GOLD DIGGER ALERT: All Ladies Should Read!

Dear valued readers of Ng Blog, a concerned female reader of this blog just sent me the story I am about to share with you via email yesterday to alert all single ladies out there on the increasing rate of MALE GODL DIGGERS, mostly those living outside the borders of Nigeria.

Read her unedited words below:


"Firstly, I want to thank you for what you are doing,Godbless. I was looking for a blog to share my story and i came across yours.

read and learn

I met this guy in my friend's house when i had a little accommodation problem. We didn't really talk but we later became friends.

I'm not into black guys and am not a racist but when you are in a foreign country like the UK. You have to be very careful who

you move about with. In the past i dated only one black guy and that was in high school and i haven't had any serious

relationship since then. i decided to keep this guy as a close friend because he was a bit different and nice. He was perfect in

cooking variety of dishes, a computer wizard and romantic. However, i got to hear from my friend who knew him before him


that he is a player and he sleeps around.It didn't bother me because i wasn't in any relationship with him. Did i forget to mention he

looked rich and well to do which i later discovered was false. The places he told me he buys his clothes from are not places an

ordinary student would shop unless your're wealthy. The amount of rent he told me he pays was also a big amount for someone

who is not working. Anyway,last November he borrowed big money from me and promised to refund me the next week when

they send money for him.Ii was a fool to believe that as i didn't get that money back till 1 month later. He gave me excuses that

his phone fell into water and he didn't check his mails so he didn't know how to contact me to refund me and i was out of the

country as well. I gave him benefit of doubt for him to prove himself. I only saw him once in January 2013 and i didn't see him again

until he randomly showed up at my place one day by 2am in the night. Telling me he went to see off his parents at the airport. Few


days later he came to take an

item he left in my place and told me he was travelling for some function. Shortly after he left my place he texted me and

said his train ticket was expensive that i should lend him some money that as soon as he reaches his friends place he would

refund me. He mentioned a ridiculous amount because i helped him the last time, i refused and only gave him a quarter of what he

asked for, that way i wont feel it if he doesn't refund me. I started doubting his actions because before that, i was the person who

always begged him to come to my place and i noticed he only comes when he is stranded or needs somethng.I started stalking him

and making enquiries. I found out that he doesnt even have an accomodation to stay in the first place. He sleeps from one girl's

house to the other because he is stranded. Also, he steals peoples credit/debit card and buys stuff with it. His parents stopped

giving him money months ago because he was done with school and they wanted him to start working and be independent. I typed in

his name online and found a notice posted by his former landlord that him and his friends are scams who owes rent and that no one

should rent a house to him. I couldnt watch the video because it was private. I was shocked and decided to confirm it. I clicked on

the picture and saved it. It was a small picture but i zoomed it a little and i could recognise him and his friend arguing with the

landlord. I have cut him out of my life for good and have warned my flatmates not to open the door for him when next he pays an

impromptu visit.I also found out they use peoples addresses to send stuffs dey ordered with stolen cards so that they won't be

caught. He was very secretive with me because i was always pointing out illegal stuff to him and i was careful not to give him my

address details. I'm sharing this story to warn my fellow girls. I don't know who his next victim would be .Once he milks you dry he

leaves you. I was lucky to discover this on time so i didn't fall a victim. My dear girls, please when a guy approaches you, no matter

how desperate you are, if he is still feeding from his parents, has no meaningful work to prove how he's making money, question his

motives and ask people around if possible. Don't lend him money which may never be refunded. Don't allow a gold digger into your

life. Pray to God for guidance. Godbless"


Dear readers, please dear valued readers, do not ignore this warning message, beware, love don't cost a thing!

2 comments:

  1. Too bad. Ladies should be very careful.

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  2. They are everywhere in naija now,so unfortunate!

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