Single Men Ask?

QUESTION:

Why can’t I find a girl that truly loves me for me?

Answer:

Remember, women don’t date a guy out of pity, only very few does that, and most times, such relationship hardly stand the test of time, so make yourself lovable and you will see thousands of lovable girls creeping to love you wholeheartedly.

Now, you may ask- how do I make myself lovable? Simply by pursuing your life dreams and not by reading all ‘GLOSSY MEN STYLE’ magazines telling you how to acquire 6 packs, 10 packs, etc, and how to woo any girl and get him to fall for you. Ask yourself this simple question: what happens next after she trips for my 6 packs and sexy look? When she finally accepts to date me, to go into a relationship with me, will she still be wowed? Will she still be satisfied with my real personality or will she be disappointed with agreeing to date me?

If that girl you had been dying to get her to accept you agrees to go into a relationship with you, will you be able to sustain the relationship financially (oh yes, no matter how we view it, and no matter how much we shout that women are being materialistic, there is still need for money to sustain a relationship, or won’t you be calling her, buying her birthday gifts, taking her out on a dates, etc?), morally and mentally? Or do you think relationship is all about taking a girl to the house and sleeping with her? Do you think relationship is just about sending her sms a million times a day professing the same love that you had been busy professing to a million other girls?

In summary, if you want to find true love, get busy with your studies, career, business, trade, passion, and pursue your dreams and goals in life, and believe me along the line love will find you naturally. But if you keep chasing after women and hoping to find love, you will only end up buying more pains and troubles for yourself because you will mostly end up with girls who don’t care about you but pretending to care just to get something from you for the time being. So be wise, stop chasing girls and first chase your life goals, and watch out.

QUESTION 2:

Why are nowadays girls too materialistic?

Answer:

This is no doubt one of the most frequently asked questions by single men today. You want to know why today girls are too materialistic? Believe me you may not want to know this truth. But since you insist, let me let the heavens loose anyway.

Women are what men shape them to be, that’s the harsh truth. The society has shaped our today women to believe in material things. You can see this in today musical videos, movies, magazines, and even in television adverts, so the women are left with no other option than to believe in material things.

For instance, if you as a guy see two girls, one wearing a decent gown, and a simple hair, and holding a simple Nokia smart phone, and another wearing a short mini skirt, tank top, Brazilian weave, GUCCI goggles, three earrings in one ear, GUCCI bag, blackberry Porsche and iphone, believe me, you will first admire the second girl, and may even go for her first before giving the first girl a glance. And even when you have an opportunity to go on a date with each of them individually, you will end up giving the first one say ten thousand naira, and the last one fifty thousand naira, and you go home whining that girls are materialistic when you are the one encouraging them and sponsoring their materialistic lifestyle.

In summary, majority of today girls are materialistic because the men want them to be materialistic. How do we explain a situation a man gives a girl hundred thousand naira for sleeping with him for a night? What do you expect this girl to believe in?

Some weeks back, I was chatting with a family friend, a prominent man, married, and guess what he was telling me? He was telling me and a friend how some girls they invited to keep some of their party members visiting Lagos company were charging more than what they used to charge just because the girls heard the men they were going to hang out with are politicians flying in from Abuja. I was shocked when I asked him how much the girls charged in the past and he said, fifty thousand naira, but now doubled it, so I pretended and told him that it may also be for the Christmas season, but when he left, I and my friend couldn’t stop shouting at how the men who are supposed to protect our sisters are busy exposing them and teaching them useless moral.

QUESTION 3:

Why do women cheat?

Answer:

The truth is that women aren’t as promiscuous as men because they are not polygamous in nature like men who can hardly be satisfied by one woman except those with high moral standard and strong self control.

Women cheat when their partner isn’t satisfying them emotionally and financially. Women love comfort and easy life, so they can be exposed to cheating when they lack money and their partner fails to provide this need. Women also feel emotionally starved easily, so when their partner careless about them, they tend to make up through cheating, but they are more likely to stop when their partner reassures them of his love more than men.

In conclusion, if you don’t want your woman to cheat on you, try and meet her emotional, material and financial needs, and believe me, the chances of her cheating on you will be very minimal. Talking about real girls, not runs girls anyway, *winks*.

QUESTION 4:

Why do girls prefer bad boys?

Answer:

No girl want a bad boy, but the issue is that the presumed ‘bad boys’ tend to possess more qualities that most girls desire in a man more than the assumed ‘good guys’.

You will agree with me that the guys we call or see as ‘bad guys’ possess these qualities:

-          They have swag

-          They have confidence

-          They are good looking

-          They are fashionable

-          They look neat

-          They are social, in fact they are extroverts

-          They are funny

-          They are witty

-          They have good career, business and they do have some cash or have a way of making girls see money around them even if it doesn’t exist

-          They are smooth talkers, hence they can make a lady picture a world that can only exist in heaven

The above reasons are the reasons it looks like girls prefer bad boys or tend to fall more for bad boys.

QUESTION 5:

Do girls love sex?

Answer:

Yes, they do because they are also human with vein and blood. But the truth is that their libido isn’t as high as that of men, with few exceptions which are not common anyway.

Girls love sex, they want sex but they want to be sure you are the one, and they want to be sure you will be there for them after the act, and not jump off to meet another girl. A girl wants to share her emotion with someone she can trust, someone she know has her at heart and will never go boasting publicly how he slept with her, and how she was crying and screaming, which most guys of today do foolishly to feel like heroes, while looking stupid.

Finally, girls feel more guilt after sex than men. They see sex as emotional engagement while guys see it as a game, and most often take it as fun and not as an emotional commitment, which is why most girls tend to pretend they don’t like sex.