Have you been wondering why you haven't found that love of your life? Do you desire to find true love that will last possibly forever till death separates? Now, wipe those endless midnight tears of loneliness and no love life and read carefully. What I have written in this article is what I am recommending to my bosom friends, colleagues and fellow single male and female hubbers and readers out there searching genuinely for true love, please read carefully and feel free to add up vital points too.
1.Now, listen to me, if you truly want to find true lasting love that will make you happy and fulfilled, you must stop to assess people based on their outward physical appearance only if you want to find true lasting love, else, you may end up with repeated heartbreaks.
2.It is now so rampant that guys accuse ladies of being gold diggers, etc, please if you truly desire to find love, then you must stop assuming that all girls are materialistic or gold-diggers even though it may seem to be the order of the day amongst today ladies; just try hard to believe that there is one good, decent, well-trained girl out there for you
3.Stop wishing and daydreaming to have unrealistic things that aren't real- stop living under the influence of movie, music or media life meant to portray life as a rosy-rosy win-win affair that it isn't. you must stop measuring your life with that of your friends, neighbors, colleagues or siblings and live your life your own way. Stop making long list of how you want your boyfriend, hubby, girlfriend or wife will be and face the reality of life. There is nothing like tall, handsome, sexy, hot, muscular, busty, curvy, hippy, etc thing, just be real and you will find love
4.Read inspiring books, especially novels written by positive authors and learn from other people's experience
5.Be open when you meet an opposite gender irrespective of their social, economic, political or academic status, he/she may be that special one you had been searching and praying for
6.Look beyond people's present condition (because the future we hear daily is a highly unpredictable being), so when you meet people in school, at work, in churches, at malls, gym, etc look at them from the perspective of their personality as a person and not based on their social or financial status, even though we are most times compelled to act that way, but you must fight that urge if you want to find love…later I will share a story of some of my colleagues as a lesson to guide some of us reading this
7.Always be free, and do not allow your past encounters with the opposite sex ruin your chances of meeting that special person- let the past be the past for there is no bad relationship in life because the ones you see as bad were only meant to teach a lesson that will help you understand life more and value the good one about to come
8.Do not keep too many friends of the opposite sex because this maybe sending the wrong signal to some people watching- I know quite sure that many people will object to this because they would counsel keeping friends with the opposite sex, but if you must, make it a sizable number of probably not more than three for a healthy lifestyle
9.don't ever make the mistake of allowing your beauty or status (if you’re a female), looks and status (if you are a male) to overcome your sense of good judgment, which will make you see people of the opposite sex as worthless or below standard
10.Finally, avoid being pompous, extreme, or acting like you are the best when dealing with people in all situations….
Please feel free to make comments, observations, etc….thanks and I wish you all a happy single life as you wait for the right time!
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