Wednesday, September 26, 2012

HOW TO AVOID BEING DIVORCED





Are you scared of being divorced in the future? Do you want to prevent divorce in your marriage? Then you must start now to take preventive measures that would prevent you from bearing the status, divorcee. Remember, I am not trying to criticize those that have already found themselves in a divorce, but all the same, you can still reunite with your spouse, it’s never too late until it is late. And from what I can tell you, divorce is not a good practice, so I would suggest you desist from it or avoid anything that would lead your marriage to a divorce. If you doubt me, try and read this novel titled, “Smart Women.”

How can you avoid being divorced? Prevent it from happening in the first place. Remember, the best cure in life is prevention, because you wouldn’t have any need to cure a disease you don’t have. How is this applicable to marriage? Read on.

Firstly, what is divorce? In concise English, divorce is a legal termination of a marriage. From my own understanding of divorce, it’s an act that started in the civilized worlds, viz. Europe and America per say, and today, it has spread so wide to all other parts of the world, to the extent that it is now a daily palaver that people have to deal with. I want to also make it known that our modern courts (talking of marriage courts), have also contributed to the abnormal increase in divorce cases globally, how do I mean? The so called legal practitioners of nowadays, have discovered that divorce is one of the easiest ways of making fast money, and so they sometimes collaborate with spouses (especially the females), to instigate a divorce, especially when they discover that the man is rich. They achieve this in many forms- setting the man up with other women to ignite distrust and quarrel between the man and his wife, through dubious enlightenment of the female partner to initiate a divorce in order to make money from her husband. Sadly enough, most nations of the world has favored this unscrupulous act through their biased laws favoring the female parties in a marriage, which most often gives the female parties the inspiration to seek for a divorce when minor case which ought to be resolved in the bedroom arises.

If I have my way, I will scrap all laws empowering married women to seek for divorce because it has never helped the world; instead, it had produced more separated families and homeless children. Haven’t you wondered why there are lesser number of divorce cases in Africa, Asia and Middle East compared to America and Europe? It is as a result of the numerous laws that exist in Europe and America, which were originally meant to protect women, but unfortunately, these laws had acted against nature, and so, created a negative reaction of inspiring more women in the developed world to seek for divorce in minor marital disagreement that ought to have been settled amicably. Take for instance the law that exists in the UK, which makes a single mother to be entitled to a government allowance, why? Such laws can only nurture negative actions amongst young girls, because they would prefer to be receiving regular pay from government for having a child out of wedlock, at least, that would give them freedom from being under any man’s control while being paid.

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