Are you
scared of being divorced in the future? Do you want to prevent divorce in your
marriage? Then you must start now to take preventive measures that would
prevent you from bearing the status, divorcee. Remember, I am not trying to
criticize those that have already found themselves in a divorce, but all the
same, you can still reunite with your spouse, it’s never too late until it is
late. And from what I can tell you, divorce is not a good practice, so I would
suggest you desist from it or avoid anything that would lead your marriage to a
divorce. If you doubt me, try and read this novel titled, “Smart Women.”
How can you
avoid being divorced? Prevent it from happening in the first place. Remember,
the best cure in life is prevention, because you wouldn’t have any need to cure
a disease you don’t have. How is this applicable to marriage? Read on.
Firstly,
what is divorce? In concise English, divorce is a legal termination of a
marriage. From my own understanding of divorce, it’s an act that started in the
civilized worlds, viz. Europe and America per say, and today, it has spread so
wide to all other parts of the world, to the extent that it is now a daily
palaver that people have to deal with. I want to also make it known that our
modern courts (talking of marriage courts), have also contributed to the
abnormal increase in divorce cases globally, how do I mean? The so called legal
practitioners of nowadays, have discovered that divorce is one of the easiest
ways of making fast money, and so they sometimes collaborate with spouses
(especially the females), to instigate a divorce, especially when they discover
that the man is rich. They achieve this in many forms- setting the man up with
other women to ignite distrust and quarrel between the man and his wife,
through dubious enlightenment of the female partner to initiate a divorce in
order to make money from her husband. Sadly enough, most nations of the world
has favored this unscrupulous act through their biased laws favoring the female
parties in a marriage, which most often gives the female parties the
inspiration to seek for a divorce when minor case which ought to be resolved in
the bedroom arises.
If I have my
way, I will scrap all laws empowering married women to seek for divorce because
it has never helped the world; instead, it had produced more separated families
and homeless children. Haven’t you wondered why there are lesser number of
divorce cases in Africa, Asia and Middle East compared to America and Europe?
It is as a result of the numerous laws that exist in Europe and America, which
were originally meant to protect women, but unfortunately, these laws had acted
against nature, and so, created a negative reaction of inspiring more women in
the developed world to seek for divorce in minor marital disagreement that
ought to have been settled amicably. Take for instance the law that exists in
the UK, which makes a single mother to be entitled to a government allowance,
why? Such laws can only nurture negative actions amongst young girls, because
they would prefer to be receiving regular pay from government for having a
child out of wedlock, at least, that would give them freedom from being under
any man’s control while being paid.
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