It is true that civilization has taken over most
practices and norms in Nigeria today, but certain practices and beliefs are
still being held with tenacity, especially by the Nigerian male population, and
in order for you as a single lady, born and living in Nigeria, to stand a
greater chance of finding a deserving husband, who would treat you like a true
Nigerian man treats his wife (i.e with deep respect, love and care), you really
need to let go of some modern or will I say, western practices that have
stopped so many Nigerian single ladies from getting married or ending up in a
happy marriage.
And what are those things? Find out after the cut….
1. Don’t
Buy A Big Car!
Yes, you heard me so well- don’t buy a big car!
Nigerian men don’t want to know if you worked hard to acquire the car or not,
they believe by default that every single lady pushing or driving a flashy or
luxury car sleeps around or messed around with so many rich men to acquire the
car.
If you are working in a big company and getting a
fat pay, they will believe that you slept with top managers and decision makers
in the company to secure the job and to have attained such a high position. And
if you are in the entertainment industry, oh hell…yours is the worst because
they already see what some unworthy ladies in the entertainment industry are
doing, so you dare not convince them that you are different, and in fact, they
won’t even give you a chance because before they even approach you, their
mission is always to- sleep with you and go because you are not good to be kept
or because you are not a wife material.
We all know that this isn’t true, but before you
have a chance to explain yourself, the men have already judged and sentenced
you to a life inprosonment without any chance of justice, so avoid buying
luxury cars if possible, unless you want to remain single, or you want to be a
single mother or end up marrying the wrong guy who is most times after your
material possessions, or don’t you know that men now dig for gold too?
2. Avoid
Living Alone!
Same way, Nigerian men believe that any single lady
living alone in the city is up to something, usually, she is believed to be a
runz girl. So I would advise you stay put in your family house and if at all
your family aren’t living in the city where you base, you better find a
relative or something similar to avoid being pre-judged.
3. Don’t
Dress Too Flashy or Indecent!
Yeah, our Nigerian brothers won’t tell you, but hey,
they are scared by a lady who is always on the hottie looks. It is good to
dress cool and hot, but tune down a bit to avoid sending the wrong signal,
remember, this is Nigeria and not America or Europe, so their African mentality
is still much in them no matter the level of education, exposure or
enlightenment, Nigerian men generally believe that a woman is supposed to be
reserved, and not wild like cat.
Remember, you will definitely get more than enough
admirers wishing to smash you, wishing to have their own share of the national
cake in between your legs, but most of them won’t dare take you to their mama
except you get them trapped, and even if you do, that means you are in for an
unhappy marital life forever or ready to divorce.
Dress modest, look cute, dress sexy, but please tune
down on those hot legs, hot ass, hot boobs dress…they may be ruining your
chances of meeting that Mr. Right.
4. Love
God But Don’t Be A Church Fanatics!
Every Nigerian man’s dream wife is a God fearing,
humble, submissive and respectful wife, but hey, don’t be a Church fanatics if
you don’t want to scare potential suitors away by sending the wrong signal-
DESPERATE, SEARCHING FOR HUSBAND!
You know, our Nigerian brothers believe that after
messing around with so many men during their youthful ages and playing and
turning down on guys, Nigerian ladies usually run to CHURCH to find husband by
pretending to be born again and holy-holy sister, and this now scare so many
Nigerian guys because they don’t believe in: OLD THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY,
BEHOLD, EVERYTHING IS NEW! In fact, they prefer your past more than your
present, lol.
5. Avoid
Feminist Utterances or Characters!
You will see them hailing ladies who stand up for
their female rights, but hey sister, don’t be deceived, Nigerian men hate that
word- feminist! So avoid sending out signals that shows that you are a
feminist.
My husband must join me in cooking at the kitchen!
You better shut it if you want them to come chasing you with a ring…but if you
want it the other way, keep singing it like chorus and watch out.
In summary, google the word- feminist or feminism
and research more, and then avoid characters and attitudes that makes you
appear like one, if you want to get married soon.
To be continued…..
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