Are you still wondering why you are yet to find true love?
Hello
friends, its been a while, I hope you all have been good? I am of
course. Now lets spare ourselves the courtesies and go straight to the
topic of today- how to find and sustain true love.
Are you a girl and you have been wondering why no guy wants to love you or stay committed to you faithfully for long or forever if possible? Are you a girl and you want to meet that your dream guy who would love, cherish, respect and stay faithful to you alone till old age?
Are you a guy searching for a beautiful girl to love you genuinely and faithfully?
Are you a guy wondering why no girl wants to love you? Are you a guy wondering why any girl you approach turns you down and accept some other guys?
If you are a girl or a guy and you answered YES to all the questions above, then relax because this article is for you!!!
Are you a girl and you have been wondering why no guy wants to love you or stay committed to you faithfully for long or forever if possible? Are you a girl and you want to meet that your dream guy who would love, cherish, respect and stay faithful to you alone till old age?
Are you a guy searching for a beautiful girl to love you genuinely and faithfully?
Are you a guy wondering why no girl wants to love you? Are you a guy wondering why any girl you approach turns you down and accept some other guys?
If you are a girl or a guy and you answered YES to all the questions above, then relax because this article is for you!!!
What value are you offering to your partner?
I
want you to understand that before anyone can genuinely love you or
take you as a true friend or lover, you must be of value to them, you
must be adding a positive value to their life that no other person is
adding in their life.
You can't just be in someone's life doing nothing for them or offering nothing of value to them and still desire or expect them to love, value and respect you genuinely, for what?
See, your mom and dad love you because you are their blood, their child, their continuation, same with God that loves us. God loves us because we are His children, but then, if we denounce Him and reject Him by intentionally refusing always to do His will and commandments, He will stop answering us when we request for something or favour from Him.
That's to tell you that for you to remain valued, cherished, respected and vital to someone, you must be in good relationship with them. Now, how do you be in good relationship with someone? By adding positive value to their life, by not being a liability to them, by showing concern for them, by lending assistance to them when they are in need (financially, materially, emotionally, spiritually, mentally).
You can't be dating a guy and you add nothing to his life aside offering him sex and you expect him to love you genuinely forever, that's absolutely IMPOSSIBLE! You know why?
Because the very day he meets a more prettier girl who offers him better sex, he will stop loving you or even dump you.
Now, before you go whining and nagging that your boyfriend or husband doesn't truly love you, I want you to answer these questions:
1. what value are you adding to that guy or man you are dating or married to that you want him to love you with all his heart and stay faithful to you alone?
2. Are you just offering him sex and expecting him to love only you forever? Do you think that by being physically attractive and beautiful, and by being an expert in bed, that a man will love you and stay faithful to you alone?
Please ladies, if you want a guy to genuinely love, cherish, value and respect you...make sure you are adding value to his life other than just giving him sex.
If being beautiful and expert in sex are the only qualities and values you are adding to your boyfriend or husband's life, then be rest assured that you will soon start sharing him with plenty other women with those two qualities.
As a lady or girl, if you want a guy to genuinely love you, avoid being a liability to him. Yes, as
Your man, he is supposed to be assisting you financially, emotionally, morally, etc whenever necessary, but don't abuse it like most today women do and still expect to be cherished like a gem!
And you too should be assisting him financially, materially, emotionally, etc when necessary.
Don't go thinking: he is the man, I am the woman, and for that, he is supposed to be giving me
money and buying me gifts while I give him sex and food whenever he asks. This mentality is the main reason most guys of today no longer value girls or stay faithful to them.
Avoid being a liability to any guy you are dating if you want him to love and respect you genuinely, I repeat!!!
And for the guys wondering why no girl wants to date you or love you. See, before you go whining that all girls like money, girls are materialistic, no girl cares for you, please I want you to ask yourself this question:
why should a girl date me? What value can I add to this girl's life if she agrees to date, love or marry me? Is it just going to be sex sex that I will be demanding from her all the time without adding positive value to her life?
To help you assess yourself, I want you to list out reasons and qualities you have as a guy that should make a girl date you.
“I am a handsome guy” is nothing!! “I am a quiet guy” is nothing!!! “I am a good guy” is irrelevant if it can't add positive value to the woman's life!!! Mind you, there are plenty good guys out there breaking ladies' ignorantly, so spare us that: I am a good guy tales.
What value will you add to her life as her boyfriend, lover or husband? If you were to be a girl, will you date a guy like yourself?
Ask yourself that question and answer it sincerely.
This brings us to the main point and things you need to do as a guy to find true and lasting love:
Get busy, get a working life, make your life financially, morally and spiritually meaningful and you will see the right girl or lady show up. Stop wasting your precious time rubbing bleaching cream to become fair and to become a handsome guy. Stop wasting your precious time lifting unnecessary weights to acquire 6 packs or 8 packs to attract cheap and wayward girls who don't even know what they want in a man.
Stop wasting your limited time chasing girls around, chase money with passion and fairness, chase your life goals, chase after your life dreams, develop your talent and natural gift, and watch out how ladies of all manners. will come chasing after you with love!!!
Enough is enough! Wishing you all a blissful love life.
NOTE: This write-up was originally published on my alternate blog: http://accofranco.hubpages.com/hub/If-Truly-You-Want-To-Find-True-Lasting-Love-Read-This
You can't just be in someone's life doing nothing for them or offering nothing of value to them and still desire or expect them to love, value and respect you genuinely, for what?
See, your mom and dad love you because you are their blood, their child, their continuation, same with God that loves us. God loves us because we are His children, but then, if we denounce Him and reject Him by intentionally refusing always to do His will and commandments, He will stop answering us when we request for something or favour from Him.
That's to tell you that for you to remain valued, cherished, respected and vital to someone, you must be in good relationship with them. Now, how do you be in good relationship with someone? By adding positive value to their life, by not being a liability to them, by showing concern for them, by lending assistance to them when they are in need (financially, materially, emotionally, spiritually, mentally).
You can't be dating a guy and you add nothing to his life aside offering him sex and you expect him to love you genuinely forever, that's absolutely IMPOSSIBLE! You know why?
Because the very day he meets a more prettier girl who offers him better sex, he will stop loving you or even dump you.
Now, before you go whining and nagging that your boyfriend or husband doesn't truly love you, I want you to answer these questions:
1. what value are you adding to that guy or man you are dating or married to that you want him to love you with all his heart and stay faithful to you alone?
2. Are you just offering him sex and expecting him to love only you forever? Do you think that by being physically attractive and beautiful, and by being an expert in bed, that a man will love you and stay faithful to you alone?
Please ladies, if you want a guy to genuinely love, cherish, value and respect you...make sure you are adding value to his life other than just giving him sex.
If being beautiful and expert in sex are the only qualities and values you are adding to your boyfriend or husband's life, then be rest assured that you will soon start sharing him with plenty other women with those two qualities.
As a lady or girl, if you want a guy to genuinely love you, avoid being a liability to him. Yes, as
Your man, he is supposed to be assisting you financially, emotionally, morally, etc whenever necessary, but don't abuse it like most today women do and still expect to be cherished like a gem!
And you too should be assisting him financially, materially, emotionally, etc when necessary.
Don't go thinking: he is the man, I am the woman, and for that, he is supposed to be giving me
money and buying me gifts while I give him sex and food whenever he asks. This mentality is the main reason most guys of today no longer value girls or stay faithful to them.
Avoid being a liability to any guy you are dating if you want him to love and respect you genuinely, I repeat!!!
And for the guys wondering why no girl wants to date you or love you. See, before you go whining that all girls like money, girls are materialistic, no girl cares for you, please I want you to ask yourself this question:
why should a girl date me? What value can I add to this girl's life if she agrees to date, love or marry me? Is it just going to be sex sex that I will be demanding from her all the time without adding positive value to her life?
To help you assess yourself, I want you to list out reasons and qualities you have as a guy that should make a girl date you.
“I am a handsome guy” is nothing!! “I am a quiet guy” is nothing!!! “I am a good guy” is irrelevant if it can't add positive value to the woman's life!!! Mind you, there are plenty good guys out there breaking ladies' ignorantly, so spare us that: I am a good guy tales.
What value will you add to her life as her boyfriend, lover or husband? If you were to be a girl, will you date a guy like yourself?
Ask yourself that question and answer it sincerely.
This brings us to the main point and things you need to do as a guy to find true and lasting love:
Get busy, get a working life, make your life financially, morally and spiritually meaningful and you will see the right girl or lady show up. Stop wasting your precious time rubbing bleaching cream to become fair and to become a handsome guy. Stop wasting your precious time lifting unnecessary weights to acquire 6 packs or 8 packs to attract cheap and wayward girls who don't even know what they want in a man.
Stop wasting your limited time chasing girls around, chase money with passion and fairness, chase your life goals, chase after your life dreams, develop your talent and natural gift, and watch out how ladies of all manners. will come chasing after you with love!!!
Enough is enough! Wishing you all a blissful love life.
NOTE: This write-up was originally published on my alternate blog: http://accofranco.hubpages.com/hub/If-Truly-You-Want-To-Find-True-Lasting-Love-Read-This
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