Present day Nigerian girls have all failed to define exactly
what they want in life. Most want to be like Kim Kardashian of America and at
the same time be judged and taken as Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, how?
You dress wayward and provocative, and when wayward and
randy guys come running after you and using and dumping you for your better
likes, you start running your mouth that ALL GUYS ARE WICKED, blah, blah, blah!
You dress slutty, wear half-naked and skimpy clothes and
club around city and still hope to meet responsible men to propose to you the
way Obama proposed to Michel, keep daydreaming.
Majority of Nigerian girls of today want to eat their cakes
and still have it, how? You want a traditional Nigerian man that goes out to
hustle for money, provide for every of your financial and material needs, but
you don’t want to be a traditional wife or girlfriend that takes very good care
of the home- cook, clean, wash and take care of the kids, so how will it work?
You want a guy with 12 packs or 20 packs, who is a sex
machine, a music star, a celebrity, faithful, doesn’t cheat, a practicing born
again Christian, a caring father, and also a traditional man, but you aren’t
ready to be any.
Ladies be honest to yourselves please- there is no perfect
man, kindly define what you want in life
and find a man that meets that dream and stop allowing today media to define
your life.
If you want a traditional man, be ready to be a traditional
woman. If you want a religious man, be ready to be a religious woman. If you
want a party man, be ready to be a party woman. If you want a celebrity man, be
ready to be a celebrity woman and also be ready to condone celebrity fans
*winks*….and stop looking for an ocean in a desert!!!
well said.
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