How To Keep Your Virginity As A Lady Until Marriage

I do understand the fact that it has become more and more difficult for a girl born within this our era to keep her virginity till marriage, and the blame should go to parents, society and most importantly, the modern media.

Our today fashion encourages indecency- exposure of the breast, buttocks, and in fact everything unmentionable, and if a girl isn’t dressed that way, she is seen as not trendy, not classy, not sexy, not elegant, not civilized, not modern, not fashionable, not exposed, not enlightened, not happening, and in most case seen as bushy and dull. The world of today now celebrate waywardness, immorality, indecency and stupidity more than uprightness and decency.

Music artistes who sing good songs end up paupers while those who sing immoral songs and dance around with naked girls get heavily paid and end up becoming consumer products brand ambassadors with multiple advert endorsements and signings while the good singers wallow in abject poverty.

I understand that the pressure to remain a virgin till marriage has become even higher for today girls, but you can still make it if you desire to and make up your mind to keep your virginity till marriage, how? Read on and find out…

1.       Choose the right boyfriend or fiancée: you cannot embark on this journey alone, and I know that it would be practically impossible for me to tell you not to date, so I advice you choose the right guy who also believes strongly in no-sex till marriage, else, you may fall.

2.       You need a divine guide to stay virgin till marriage: you need to be religiously strong to hang on because sometimes you might feel down, so you need that divine grace to help you stand.

3.       Avoid wild parties, or youth parties: any party that will lead to hanging out for the night or for long should be avoided, yes.

4.       Avoid alcohol and hard drugs: alcohol and hard drug (cocaine, marijuana, heroine, etc) lowers human self-control and most times increases libido and the urge for immorality, so avoid them by all means, of course you can live without drinking, I am a living witness, haven’t tasted alcohol before and now I am even allergic to it.

5.       Avoid indecent dressing and all forms of provocative wears: if you dress provocative and still wish to remain virgin is as dangerous as playing with a wild lion and still hope not to be devoured.

6.       Choose your friends: hanging out with the wrong females friends may lure you into having sex, so be careful.

Readers’ Note: if you have made the mistake already, please don’t feel bad, it is nothing to worry about because you can still be a virgin again and quit sex outside marriage. To quit pre-marital sex, follow the steps below:

1.       Make a decision today that you won’t have pre-marital sex again

2.       Inform your boyfriend (if you are in a relationship now) and if he refuses to embark on the journey of no more sex till marriage, quit

3.       Set a target and start gradual- one week, two weeks, three weeks, one month, 3 months, 1 year, etc until your prince charming comes.